Will My Wife Ever Love Me Again?
Some husbands feel trapped in what they perceive to be a loveless marriage.
Others have already separated emotionally from the relationship and may
even have had an affair or moved out of the marital home.
But if you are a husband who still love your wife and find yourself wondering,
“Will My Wife Ever Love Me Again”?
The answer is “Yes” it is possible!
With effort, patience and persistence you can very often
rekindle the loving feelings you onced shared for each
Has you wife told you she doesn’t love?
If she has not, then even though she is behaving cold and
distant towards you then it is possible to warm her up and
bring her close to you again.
Sometimes her reason(s) for acting this way may just be due
to some other personal issues that she is experiencing.
Talk with her and re-assure her that you are there for her no matter what.
Even if she has told you that she doesn’t love you and has even convinced you
of this assertion it is still possible to re-ignite the love she once had for you.
First of all, acknowledge that this disconnect did not come about overnight.
There were warning signs that you ignored or did not read correctly.
So, it will take time to put your relationship back on track.
This will usually be a slow and tentative process requiring respectful, honest
and heartfelt communication.
However, this might not be the first steps to getting your wife to love you
You will first have to listen to what she says she needs to began rebuilding
the love and intimacy in your relationhip.
For example, if your wife is emphatic that she just needs some time or
space, then do not badger her about how you need to start communicating
more. The time for that will come!
She will not feel like talking at this point in time.
Instead, allow her as much time and space as she needs.
Don’t ask her how much time she needs or give her a “deadline”.
Let her know that you are willing to accept this distance for now.
This is an important step for many reasons.
First of all, this concession shows her that you are strong enough to let her go
and go on without her for a while.
Second, it gives her the opportunity to see if she misses having you around.
Remember that you can give her space even if you are living under the same roof.
Treat her as if she is a colleague at work.
Be cordial and courteous, but not intimate.
Being unavailable to her works especially well if you have been begging, clingy or
demanding up to this point.
That type of needy behavior tends to push people away even further.
So now doing the opposite will allow her to compare and experience what it
is like to have you there for her and what it’s like for you to be absent.
This in itself is very powerful.
During your time “off”, make sure that you take care of yourself, eat well, exercise
if possible, get enough sleep (even if it’s on the couch), and take time to go out
with your friends, spend more quality time with the kids, or just spend some time alone.
When you’ve gone through this phase, you can start taking some steps that will
open up communication between the two of you and bring a resounding Yes! to the
question of “Will my wife ever love me again“?
You can start by asking her out on a quiet “date night” or a weekend away and
let her start talking to you about what she sees as the problem.
You don’t have to agree, just listen and let her have her say.
Follow her lead and don’t rush or pressure her to resolve all the challenges in one
evening or weekend.