Making My Marriage Whole Again After An Affair

Making my marriage whole again after an affair- Kelly’s story.

Theirs was a story book wedding, planned to perfection and went off
perfectly and dreamlike.

It was love at first sight and only a long and happy marriage lay ahead.

Isn’t that what all couples envision?

Well, Kelly and Kyle were no different, they had love on their side after all.

Kelly was a good and attentive wife and though she had a job and worked
outside the home,  she always made sure to spend time with Kyle.

They engaged in many of the fun interests and hobbies that they shared.

She also managed to keep the house beautifully well tended and comfortable.

So how is it that just 6 years after they were married she now finds out that Kyle
is cheating on her and she is now in the fight of her life to save her marriage and
make it whole again from the devastation of an affair?

What happened? What did she miss?

Do you see that by asking that question Kelly is already accepting the blame and
responsibility for the affair?

So many women do this!

The first 3 steps that Kelly need is to:

  1. Accept that Kyle was responsible for his decision to betray their marriage
    by having an affair and to make sure that he also accepted that fact
  2. Ensure that Kyle was indeed interested in saving their marriage
  3. Elicit proof that Kyle has ended the affair and ceased all communication
    with the other woman

After these as non-negotiable criteria has been met Kelly will now ready to deal with her
own feelings of:

  • Jealousy
  • Anger
  • Disappointment
  • Bitterness
  • Shame
  • Hopelessness
  • Betrayal
  • Fear
  • Frustration
  • Paranoia
  • And many more negative and dis -empowering emotions

It will time and there will be days when Kelly feels like just giving up on the relationship
especially when it sometimes seems that she is the only one suffering and Kyle is going
on as if nothing life -altering has happened in their world.

What Kelly must realize is that she has to heal herself first before she can begin to
make her marriage whole again after the trauma of the affair.

Not only has the marriage broken, but Kelly feels beaten up and broken too!

To feel whole again Kelly must  do 3 things:

  1. Get her negative emotions and affair images under control
  2. Do things to distract herself, make her smile and feel good about herself
  3. Talk with Kyle in a calm and respectful manner

Kelly relates that at times this was not easy to do and there were days when she
did backslide into anger, depression and wanted to hide away.

But she persisted in her efforts and commitment to making her marriage whole
again after the brokenness of the affair.

Today Kelly and Kyle have managed to rebuild the trust, love and respect in their
marriage and enjoy a mutually cherished, vibrant and dynamic relationship that
they both acknowledge as being much better than the one they had before the affair.

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