How To Avoid Divorce Until YOU Are Ready

 

You can avoid divorce if you work at it...

Remember that how to save your marriage and avoid divorce is in your
hands and power.
Your marriage is ultimately a relationship between you and your
spouse, so irrespective of other people’s input the decision to
stay together or divorce rest with the two of you alone.
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Here are 3 steps to consider doing to avoid a divorce until you are sure
that you’re ready:

Step 1: Get Your Marriage into the Best Shape Possible

Are you wondering whether or not you  have done everything you can to
save your relationship?
Then why not make sure to get your marriage into the best shape possible before
making a decision to divorce.
This way, you will have a true picture of what you are really giving up should
you decide that you are no longer able to avoid a divorce.

Uncovering and re-experiencing the good in your marriage will help you to make
a more informed choice about what you are leaving behind.

Step 2: Set the Clock

As you work to  avoid a divorce until you are ready, set an imaginary alarm
clock for yourself that will go off at a designated time that you choose!
It could be a few months from now or a year.
When that clock’s alarm sounds, reassess and decide whether to stay, leave, or reset
the clock for an extension.

This will help you find the strength to put out a good effort if you know it’s only for a
limited period of time, not forever. Most of us can do almost anything if it’s time-limited.

 

Step 3: Give it Your Personal All

Since this is your last ditch effort, give it your all by being the best spouse you can
be during this time—regardless of how your spouse acts.
That way you will know that you have done your best to avoid a divorce until
you are ready.
If it comes down to a divorce, your conscience can rest easy that you really put
forth your best effort.

While you’re at it, avoid using the “divorce” word until the alarm you have set is
going off, or you know the relationship isn’t going to work.
In the meantime, act like a family together and assume your relationship is going to last.

Especially now at this Christmas Season, why not enjoy this wonderful time together as it
might be the last time to do so if you eventually decide that a divorce cannot be avoided.

My best to you as you work to save your marriage and wrestle with the divorce question.

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Have you considered divorce? If so, what do you see as the pros and cons?

Is your marriage, given the circumstances, in the best possible shape for you to make
such a decision?

Are you worn out from your efforts and struggling to find the strength to go on?

Please share your ideas and personal experiences on this topic with other members
of the community.

Wishing you hope and healing for your marriage!
Your Relationship Whisperer

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