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Make Your Spouse Your Friend

March 3, 2016

Make your spouse your friend by talking honestly and respectfully with them, to them and about them. There are some valuable insights in that seemingly obvious observation. Many of us SEEM to have lost the ability to communicate our feelings from a place of authenticity and compassion for the other person. Especially when the other […]

Why Do Affairs Hurt?

February 15, 2016

Sexual and emotional affairs hurt and even though the pain is real what is the real reason? Some victims of a sexual affair say they feel betrayed and rejected when their partner cheats. Others are more angry than hurt even though the anger is really coming from a place of pain. How would you respond […]

Cheating Can Never Be Excused

July 28, 2015

Cheating can never be excused no matter how well reasoned the arguments presented … to yourself, your partner or anyone else. What is the reason you cheat and what is the end game? Cheating emphatically demonstrates that your current relationship is not fulfilling or satisfying to you. Did you just get up one morning and […]

End His Affair With The Other Woman

July 7, 2015

Your husband has cheated and you want to end his affair but don’t think you can find the strength. The revelation of his infidelity has sucked the life out of you and the marriage. It is a gut kick that feels like a death blow! You want to scream and run away. The anger and […]

Get Help With The Guilt Of Cheating On Your Spouse.

July 7, 2015

Get Help With The Guilt Of Cheating On Your Spouse Have you had an affair in your relationship? It is natural to feel guilty when we hurt the ones we love. Cheating on your spouse can provide even more of a reason to feel guilty because the pain inflicted is intentional and should have been […]

Can Ego Ruin Your Relationship With Your Spouse?

June 8, 2015

Do you want to ruin your relationship with your spouse? I bet you will answer “Of course not”! However, it is a fact that in some instances, putting your ego first can destroy your relationship or marriage. So, is your ego harming your relationships? Let us get extreme and say your husband had an affair! […]

Generously Forgiving Makes Surviving An The Affair Possible

February 17, 2015

Generously forgiving your spouse can make it more possible to survive the affair and stay together. I am not discounting or minimizing how hurt you feel and how difficult it can be to be forgiving of such a betrayal in your marriage. However, forgiving while still bearing a grudge towards him or her will only […]