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Healing The Pain Of Infidelity And Melting Your Man’s Heart

April 22, 2015

Healing the pain of infidelity can seem like an unrealistic and impossible dream when you first learn of your spouse’s devastating betrayal. When a couple first get together to start their relationship, everything can be so rosy, perfect and happy that infidelity and the ensuing pain that it causes is unimaginable. But when your relationship […]

How Long Will It Take To Rebuild Your Marriage Post Affair

November 14, 2014

Only you can determine how long it will take to rebuild your marriage post affair! You see,  you can only rebuild your marriage after you have decided that it is worth saving in the first place. If your spouse has damaged your marriage by having an extramarital affair your feelings of anger and betrayal can be so […]

Survive The Affair Together Even Before Your Marriage

November 6, 2014

You can survive the affair together even before your marriage! At first glance that statement might sound as if am saying that you or your spouse should plan to cheat or even condone adultery. That is emphatically not what I am saying! However, we are human and as such we make mistakes, even one as […]

Why You Should Not Get Divorced

July 14, 2014

Why you should not get divorced until you have exhausted all other options. Note: Your can change your heart and change your life to achieve the great love that you desire. Read the book by Gary Smalley who is renowned for guiding relationships back from brokenness. The Wholehearted Marriage: Fully Engaging Your Most Important Relationship […]

Why Many Marriages Do Not Survive Cheating

May 15, 2014

Many marriages do not survive cheating because of : The false pride of the victimized spouse, and Worrying about what others will think if you work to save the marrige. Please don’t get me wrong! I am not condoning cheating and the horrific blow that it can deliver to the victim and the relationship. There  […]

Forgiveness For My Cheating Spouse

January 27, 2014

Forgiveness for my cheating spouse is admittedly not the first think that sprang to my mind when I discovered his infidelity … I was so angry and full of rage that I wanted to do him bodily harm. So, I asked him to give me some space to process the hurtful feelings of rejection and […]

Uncovering My Passion To Save My Marriage After His Infidelity

January 25, 2014

Uncovering my passion to save my marriage after his infidelity was an almost instantaneous decision that I made. When my husband and I got married twelve years ago, we both decided that divorce was not an option and that we would both do all we can to stay together forever (for better or for worse), […]