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Why Do Affairs Hurt?

February 15, 2016

Sexual and emotional affairs hurt and even though the pain is real what is the real reason? Some victims of a sexual affair say they feel betrayed and rejected when their partner cheats. Others are more angry than hurt even though the anger is really coming from a place of pain. How would you respond […]

How To Sincerely Accept My Cheating Spouse

July 13, 2015

I want to learn how to sincerely accept my cheating spouse and then survive the affair together. This is an extremely difficult AND painful situation for any spouse to accept in their marriage. Why? Because when you accept someone who has hurt you it means that you must be able to separate them from their error […]

End His Affair With The Other Woman

July 7, 2015

Your husband has cheated and you want to end his affair but don’t think you can find the strength. The revelation of his infidelity has sucked the life out of you and the marriage. It is a gut kick that feels like a death blow! You want to scream and run away. The anger and […]

Get Help With The Guilt Of Cheating On Your Spouse.

July 7, 2015

Get Help With The Guilt Of Cheating On Your Spouse Have you had an affair in your relationship? It is natural to feel guilty when we hurt the ones we love. Cheating on your spouse can provide even more of a reason to feel guilty because the pain inflicted is intentional and should have been […]

How Not To Panic After His Affair In Your Marriage!

June 2, 2015

Don’t panic after his affair!”   I know you will be thinking “are you crazy?” But hear me out! When we panic, we  usually shut down or make snap decisions that we will later regret and which we  might not be able to reverse. Believe me when I tell you that I speak from personal experience. So, […]

How Long Will It Take To Rebuild Your Marriage Post Affair

November 14, 2014

Only you can determine how long it will take to rebuild your marriage post affair! You see,  you can only rebuild your marriage after you have decided that it is worth saving in the first place. If your spouse has damaged your marriage by having an extramarital affair your feelings of anger and betrayal can be so […]

Survive The Affair Together Even Before Your Marriage

November 6, 2014

You can survive the affair together even before your marriage! At first glance that statement might sound as if am saying that you or your spouse should plan to cheat or even condone adultery. That is emphatically not what I am saying! However, we are human and as such we make mistakes, even one as […]