Control Your Jealousy To Get Your Ex Back

October 10, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

Why You Must Control Your Jealousy if You Want to Get Your Ex Back …

Jealousy can be a huge problems for relationships. The green-eyed monster is especially problematic when we live in a world that includes Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, text messaging, instant messaging, email and so many other ways for people to communicate with each other – including members of the opposite sex.

More and more jobs expect professional employees to have ready access to information at all hours of the day and night and many people must go back into the office after hours on occasion, or never seem to leave the office on other occasions.

It leaves the doors wide open for jealous spouses and lovers to leap to the wrong conclusions quite often.

Some Jealousy Can be Good for the Relationship

While your significant other is probably glad to know you care enough for the green-eyed monster to rear its ugly head on occasion, it’s important to avoid making scenes, jumping to conclusions, and levy accusations and allegations without proof. The key is to find balance. You want your partner to know you care, but avoid going overboard with displays of jealousy lest they alarm your partner and cause doubts about the relationship.
Trust, after all, is also important. When jealousy is too “over the top” it leaves your partner feeling as though you lack trust.

Reigning in the Green-Eyed Monster

The key is to reign in your jealousy before it becomes problematic. Consider these actions to get your jealousy under control.

* Breathe deeply. Whenever your jealous thoughts are about to spiral out of control, take a moment to breathe in and out slowly and deeply. Focus all your attention on breathing for the next several breaths. This not only helps you calm your raging thoughts but also provides important seconds for clearer thinking to kick in.

* Speak calmly. This is not the time to incite violence or make threatening statements. Let your partner know you’re uncomfortable and explain why in a reasonable tone. Most partners will show respect for your feelings, even if your partner believes they are unfounded, and attempt to get out of the situation if it’s possible.

* Be proactive. When you feel the ugly head of jealousy making an appearance, start looking for thoughts and feelings that will cancel it out. The more active role you take in eliminating jealousy from becoming a problem for your relationship, the less likely it is to become one.

If jealousy has already caused big problems in your relationship, you can still get your ex back once you get your jealousy under control.  Then you just need to follow these simple instructions to have your ex back in your arms in no time.

 

Save Your Marriage and Enjoy Making Up

Secrets To Survive The Affair Together

October 2, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

Secrets to survive the affair together will help you get over the feelings of devastation,
rage, rejection and humiliation that are some of the emotions that follow being cheated
on by your spouse.

In this 3 – phase healing plan, Dr. Frank Gunzburg, who has 35 years of helping couples save
their marriages, takes you by the hand and shows you how to go from hurting to happy again.

Click Here To Survive The Affair Together!

What if I told you that the most effective way to rebuilding your marriage is included in
on of the following ten actions:

  • Talking
  • Reading self-help books
  • Praying
  • Asking for forgiveness
  • Sending, cards, letters and gifts
  • Being more attentive
  • Discussing the details of the affair and answering your spouse’s questions
  • Setting boundaries
  • Meeting each others needs …

However, if you are to get past the cheating you will need to know when to do the right
thing!

That is why you need Secrets To Survive The Affair Together

 

Secrets To Survive The Affair Together

Can You Survive The Affair Together ?

September 26, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

women crying Can you survive the affair together or more importantly, do you want to?

You see I have learned that free individuals can pretty much
accomplish anything they want strongly enough.

So, the question then becomes “Do you want to get past the affair
and save your marriage”?

Is your love stronger than the affair?

Is your love for each other enough to get over the hurt, anger and feelings
of betrayal, guilt and resentment which are all natural fallout from cheating?
Accepting that your marriage is forever changed is key to this relationship
surviving!
If you or your spouse try to avoid examining the trauma of the affair or do not
deal with the pain that has been caused then it is not likely your marriage will
last.

You have heard that you cannot fix a thing unless you know it is broken.

Well, your marriage is broken!

It may be fixable and may become even better than it was, but you and your
spouse must work to address what caused the break in the first place.

Let me hasten to say that I am not talking about assigning blame or discussing
who is at fault.
Although the spouse who cheated is clearly responsible for this inexcusable and
hurtful lapse of judgement – it is obvious that the relationship was going off track
and needed attention.

A marriage is made up of two living breathing organism and must be treated as such.
It must be given the attention that is given any other living thing, plants, pets and people.

If the only time you pay attention to to each other is when there is a crisis such as surviving
an affair then your relationship will not be the secure, fulfilling and joyous haven it was meant to be.

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The book above was written by a couple who actually experienced the excruciating pain of an affiar
in their marriage.

It shares practical ways of how they managed to get over the hurt to rebuild the trust and save their
marriage – and how you can too!

Survive An Affair – Special

September 9, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

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Crucial For Those Who Uncovered the Affair

Have you … Been Ripped Apart by An Affair!

 

How to Save Your Relationship if You’ve Cheated on Your Spouse:

 Critical Actions You MUST Take to Avoid the Devastation from a Breakup or Divorce

If your marriage has fallen victim to an adulterous affair then you will need help to cope with and survive the pain of this excruciating and self-esteem damaging event…

Getting actionable help and advice is crucial if you are to survive the affair and protect your marriage relationship (if that is your ultimate goal).

Sadly, some marriages do not recover from this terrible blow to their relationship, most often because they did not get the help that is needed to deal with the feelings of hurt, rage, anger and resentment  etc.

Deciding to stay or go should not be done in a knee jerk fashion.

And you you don’t have to go it alone!

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Avoid Divorce By Fixing These Two Problems

September 6, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

Avoid divorce by fixing these two problems in your marriage …
If you want to heal yourself and restore your relationship after the affair …
you must successfully resolve the following 2 issues:

  • Learn how to forgive
  • Learn how to restore the honesty

Fixing these two issues will determine whether your marriage will last or not!
That is not an exaggeration … since a lasting marriage, like all viable relationships
is based on love, trust, honesty and forgiveness.

This self help How to Survive An Affair relationship manual and guide by Dr.Frank Gunzburg
is full of testimonials from couples who have used the advice it contains to bring their marriages
back from the brink of divorce … and you can too!

Get the guide today and …

  • Regain your self-esteem after the affair…
  • Replace the anger, depression and sadness…
  • Forgive your spouse and get a heart-felt apology…
  • Rebuild the trust from the ground up…
  • Open the lines of communication…
  • Eliminate the negative thoughts…
  • End the affairs for good…
  • Make the relationship better than ever…

I encourage you to begin to transform your marriage from just “limping along” to a vibrant
and dynamic relationship which will endure and bring you both years of joy!

Get your copy of how to survive an affair here

Is Your Spouse Having An Emotional Affair

August 21, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

Is your spouse having an emotional affair? Are you …?

images shows woman sad and crying How do you know if your spouse or you have become
involved in an emotional affair with someone else?

This can happen so subtly that you don’t notice and
by the time you do, it has become a very dangerous and
damaging situation for your marriage.

So, what is an emotional affair?

Because our society is so uninhibited and the sexes can so freely work, play
socialize, attend worship and just generally mix it up  together this can lead to
strong attachments being formed.

This is fine when the couple is not already in a committed romantic relationship :
such as a marriage.

But, when they are and one of you steps out and forms a  relationship that interferes
with your ability to give 100% to your marriage, then you most
likely have crossed the line into an emotional affair.

These affairs can be devastating  and confusing even while seeming harmless, because
even when there is no actual physical cheating – a sense of betrayal still exists.

Believe or not some spouses say that they could handle it better if their spouses
cheated than have an emotional affair!

Here is why:

For the spouse of someone who is having an emotional affair, it is often reported to be
just as heartbreaking as a physical affair.
For some victims of an emotional affair, it is even more heartbreaking than finding out
their spouse has had sex with someone else.

This is because, with an emotional affair, there is a deeper attachment to another person
outside of your marriage that goes beyond just a physical encounter.

Almost all these emotional affairs start innocently! Most of those involved do not set out to
hurt anyone …
You’re friendly with someone of the opposite sex, and then, it just evolves over time  into
something else …  a strong attachment and connection that has drawn you in and away from
your spouse.

Watch for the follow up post that will show you how to take the Emotional Affair Test to see if
you or spouse is at risk and what to do if either of you have crossed that fine line …

 

In the meantime request your free Survive An Affair report here

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How To Make Your Woman Feel Like The Queen Of Your World

August 19, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

How to make your woman feel like the queen of your world … which of course is what she
should be.

In just the same way as she should make you feel like the king!

Have you ever noticed that even in marriages where the couples seem to have it all — fabulous looks, unlimited money, the perfect story — things sometimes fall apart?
It leaves a lot of mere mortals without the fairy tale budgets and picture perfect smile feeling as if they don’t stand a chance.
The truth is, that the regular people of the world stand as much of a chance as those with big budgets to buy their girls a little bit of everything.

Why?

Because when it comes down to it, most girls aren’t proverbial material girls no matter how great of a show they put on. They may claim that diamonds are a girl’s best friend. They certainly won’t turn them down when offered. But, what a girl really wants is to feel like the queen of your world and not just an afterthought. These simple steps might not sound like much, but they’ll make a world of different to the woman who is currently queen of your heart.

Sweat the Details

Many men follow the wrong advice when they listen to people telling them not to sweat the small stuff. Life is mostly the small stuff.
It’s the small stuff that passes by, ignored and overlooked, while you’re busy looking for the big statement items. Don’t let her get away because you were so busy looking for something monumental to show your love that you overlooked a thousand small ways you could have told her or showed her how you feel.

Kiss her Hellos and Goodbye – No Matter What!

Life gets busy sometimes. It’s easy to overlook the details of what’s going on at home when you have a thousand different demands firing your way at the office or you’re worried about how you’re going to make ends meet next month. Whatever your worries may be, you should have no worry greater in your life than greeting your girl hello and leaving her with something to remember you by throughout the day.

The perfect solution?

A kiss.

It costs little and speaks volumes.

Give her a Night Off Each Week

There’s nothing the average busy wife and mother wants more than a night off each week. Come home and take over. Plan the meals. Feed the kids. Bathe the kids. Tuck them in. Draw her a bath and take over kitchen cleanup duties while she relaxes in the tub. It will feel like a little piece of paradise to her and show her just how devoted to her you really are.

Send her Silly Little Love Notes

They may seem silly to you, but these are the things she’ll read a thousand times over the years. She’ll wrap them in ribbons and take them out to look over whenever the road gets a little rough between you. If you continue sending them, she’ll often revisit them to see how things have changed, and how much they’ve stayed the same between the two of you.

You don’t have to spend ridiculous sums of money to show her that she really is the queen of your hearts. More importantly, these small gestures make her feel like she’s the queen of your world too.

Have you let your woman get away?

Want her back and enjoy the Magic of Making Up then click here?

 

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