Can You Survive The Affair Together ?

September 26, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

women crying Can you survive the affair together or more importantly, do you want to?

You see I have learned that free individuals can pretty much
accomplish anything they want strongly enough.

So, the question then becomes “Do you want to get past the affair
and save your marriage”?

Is your love stronger than the affair?

Is your love for each other enough to get over the hurt, anger and feelings
of betrayal, guilt and resentment which are all natural fallout from cheating?
Accepting that your marriage is forever changed is key to this relationship
surviving!
If you or your spouse try to avoid examining the trauma of the affair or do not
deal with the pain that has been caused then it is not likely your marriage will
last.

You have heard that you cannot fix a thing unless you know it is broken.

Well, your marriage is broken!

It may be fixable and may become even better than it was, but you and your
spouse must work to address what caused the break in the first place.

Let me hasten to say that I am not talking about assigning blame or discussing
who is at fault.
Although the spouse who cheated is clearly responsible for this inexcusable and
hurtful lapse of judgement – it is obvious that the relationship was going off track
and needed attention.

A marriage is made up of two living breathing organism and must be treated as such.
It must be given the attention that is given any other living thing, plants, pets and people.

If the only time you pay attention to to each other is when there is a crisis such as surviving
an affair then your relationship will not be the secure, fulfilling and joyous haven it was meant to be.

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Crucial For Those Who Uncovered the Affair

Have you … Been Ripped Apart by An Affair!

 

How to Save Your Relationship if You’ve Cheated on Your Spouse:

 Critical Actions You MUST Take to Avoid the Devastation from a Breakup or Divorce

If your marriage has fallen victim to an adulterous affair then you will need help to cope with and survive the pain of this excruciating and self-esteem damaging event…

Getting actionable help and advice is crucial if you are to survive the affair and protect your marriage relationship (if that is your ultimate goal).

Sadly, some marriages do not recover from this terrible blow to their relationship, most often because they did not get the help that is needed to deal with the feelings of hurt, rage, anger and resentment  etc.

Deciding to stay or go should not be done in a knee jerk fashion.

And you you don’t have to go it alone!

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Avoid Divorce By Fixing These Two Problems

September 6, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

Avoid divorce by fixing these two problems in your marriage …
If you want to heal yourself and restore your relationship after the affair …
you must successfully resolve the following 2 issues:

Fixing these two issues will determine whether your marriage will last or not!
That is not an exaggeration … since a lasting marriage, like all viable relationships
is based on love, trust, honesty and forgiveness.

This self help How to Survive An Affair relationship manual and guide by Dr.Frank Gunzburg
is full of testimonials from couples who have used the advice it contains to bring their marriages
back from the brink of divorce … and you can too!

Get the guide today and …

  • Regain your self-esteem after the affair…
  • Replace the anger, depression and sadness…
  • Forgive your spouse and get a heart-felt apology…
  • Rebuild the trust from the ground up…
  • Open the lines of communication…
  • Eliminate the negative thoughts…
  • End the affairs for good…
  • Make the relationship better than ever…

I encourage you to begin to transform your marriage from just “limping along” to a vibrant
and dynamic relationship which will endure and bring you both years of joy!

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Is Your Spouse Having An Emotional Affair

August 21, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

Is your spouse having an emotional affair? Are you …?

images shows woman sad and crying How do you know if your spouse or you have become
involved in an emotional affair with someone else?

This can happen so subtly that you don’t notice and
by the time you do, it has become a very dangerous and
damaging situation for your marriage.

So, what is an emotional affair?

Because our society is so uninhibited and the sexes can so freely work, play
socialize, attend worship and just generally mix it up  together this can lead to
strong attachments being formed.

This is fine when the couple is not already in a committed romantic relationship :
such as a marriage.

But, when they are and one of you steps out and forms a  relationship that interferes
with your ability to give 100% to your marriage, then you most
likely have crossed the line into an emotional affair.

These affairs can be devastating  and confusing even while seeming harmless, because
even when there is no actual physical cheating – a sense of betrayal still exists.

Believe or not some spouses say that they could handle it better if their spouses
cheated than have an emotional affair!

Here is why:

For the spouse of someone who is having an emotional affair, it is often reported to be
just as heartbreaking as a physical affair.
For some victims of an emotional affair, it is even more heartbreaking than finding out
their spouse has had sex with someone else.

This is because, with an emotional affair, there is a deeper attachment to another person
outside of your marriage that goes beyond just a physical encounter.

Almost all these emotional affairs start innocently! Most of those involved do not set out to
hurt anyone …
You’re friendly with someone of the opposite sex, and then, it just evolves over time  into
something else …  a strong attachment and connection that has drawn you in and away from
your spouse.

Watch for the follow up post that will show you how to take the Emotional Affair Test to see if
you or spouse is at risk and what to do if either of you have crossed that fine line …

 

In the meantime request your free Survive An Affair report here

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How To Make Your Woman Feel Like The Queen Of Your World

August 19, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

How to make your woman feel like the queen of your world … which of course is what she
should be.

In just the same way as she should make you feel like the king!

Have you ever noticed that even in marriages where the couples seem to have it all — fabulous looks, unlimited money, the perfect story — things sometimes fall apart?
It leaves a lot of mere mortals without the fairy tale budgets and picture perfect smile feeling as if they don’t stand a chance.
The truth is, that the regular people of the world stand as much of a chance as those with big budgets to buy their girls a little bit of everything.

Why?

Because when it comes down to it, most girls aren’t proverbial material girls no matter how great of a show they put on. They may claim that diamonds are a girl’s best friend. They certainly won’t turn them down when offered. But, what a girl really wants is to feel like the queen of your world and not just an afterthought. These simple steps might not sound like much, but they’ll make a world of different to the woman who is currently queen of your heart.

Sweat the Details

Many men follow the wrong advice when they listen to people telling them not to sweat the small stuff. Life is mostly the small stuff.
It’s the small stuff that passes by, ignored and overlooked, while you’re busy looking for the big statement items. Don’t let her get away because you were so busy looking for something monumental to show your love that you overlooked a thousand small ways you could have told her or showed her how you feel.

Kiss her Hellos and Goodbye – No Matter What!

Life gets busy sometimes. It’s easy to overlook the details of what’s going on at home when you have a thousand different demands firing your way at the office or you’re worried about how you’re going to make ends meet next month. Whatever your worries may be, you should have no worry greater in your life than greeting your girl hello and leaving her with something to remember you by throughout the day.

The perfect solution?

A kiss.

It costs little and speaks volumes.

Give her a Night Off Each Week

There’s nothing the average busy wife and mother wants more than a night off each week. Come home and take over. Plan the meals. Feed the kids. Bathe the kids. Tuck them in. Draw her a bath and take over kitchen cleanup duties while she relaxes in the tub. It will feel like a little piece of paradise to her and show her just how devoted to her you really are.

Send her Silly Little Love Notes

They may seem silly to you, but these are the things she’ll read a thousand times over the years. She’ll wrap them in ribbons and take them out to look over whenever the road gets a little rough between you. If you continue sending them, she’ll often revisit them to see how things have changed, and how much they’ve stayed the same between the two of you.

You don’t have to spend ridiculous sums of money to show her that she really is the queen of your hearts. More importantly, these small gestures make her feel like she’s the queen of your world too.

Have you let your woman get away?

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Has Your Spouse Said They Do Not Love You Anymore

August 3, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

Has your spouse said they do not love you anymore and you are reeling from the pain and shock
of hearing this because you still love them and want to save your marriage?

Do not give up hope!

The love your spouse once felt for you might not really be dead …
just buried under years of resentment, frustrations and unresolved or even unexpressed anger
they might be feeling about something in the relationship.

Even if your spouse has actually walked away from the marriage you could still bring them back
home again.

But you must be willing to try some “out of the box” and non conventional techniques!

But isn’t your marriage and the life you have built together worth the effort?

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Is lack of forgiveness poisoning your marriage?

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When honesty is trampled on in a marriage couples can become more like enemies than
friends and lovers.

Do you and your spouse need to rebuild the honesty and trust in your marriage?

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Enjoy This Beautiful Love Song By Pablo Milanes

July 1, 2013 by Yvonne Finn

A Beautiful love song can help you remember to appreciate your spouse …

We sometimes need a reminder of why we fell in love with this special person and the words or just the
tune from a love song can be just what we need.

Music can make us laugh or cry, feel sad or joyous no matter what we are feeling are want to feel there
is a song than can get us there.

Read more at Bob Marley Quotes About Songs, Music, Love Relationships And Family

Can music help you Survive The Affair Together?

Maybe, if you let it!

If you are looking for ways to work out the terrible hurt that cheating inflicts on your
relationship and marriage then I believe that you will find it.

We have heard it said that “where there is a will there is a way”.

And in most situations this can be absolutely true!

Is adultery painful? A betrayal? Yes!

However, if a couple is kind and forgiving of each others missteps then even something
as egregious as an affair then they will seek to use all the tools at their disposal to save
their marriage.

I am not saying the spouses should bury their heads in the sand or try to sweep the affair
under the rug.
Or worst of all rush to pretend that nothing earth-shattering happened.

No, no, no! It will take time to get past this hurtful event and rebuild trust and intimacy
in the relationship.

But during the process of doing the work to save the relationship, why not add some
pleasurable interludes and listen to the music that you fell in love to? Or danced to at
milestone birthdays and anniversaries?